aquarian developments

and my daughter is an Aquarius to add the ending. hate i deleted this too. 🙂 so sweet. glad i still have this ring.

one post in 2014.

let’s see if we can at least double that for 2015. i won’t make any promises, but i’d love to be the blogger i was five years ago. this blog turned 8 years old in february, and i often feel like deleting the trivial thoughts of whoever that girl was writing back then. but hey, i’ll keep the embarrassment around for posterity.

i don’t think anyone would want to read the novel it would take to catch up to this point in life, so i’ll just talk about what “nishy” life is like today. i’m still working at stewbos and i love it. i hope i will work there for many, many years to come. there are so much going on there to be excited about, and the most interesting people in town either own or work there. i get to learn from local legends in their respective fields (bo henry, stewart campbell, david campbell, billy mann, lynne mertins, kevin hogencamp, etc.). for the first couple of years, i managed bo and stewart’s event center at merry acres, and now i am working solely on their marketing and public relations. currently, i am only part-time – and i gave up my beloved office to work from home (which is conveniently minutes away from most of the locations). so, i’m a work-from-home/stay-at-home mama; something i never could have predicted i’d be doing this year. my bosses have been so supportive of this life change, just one of many reasons i love the adventure of working at stewbos.

i’m completely captivated by vayda. being a mother is the greatest joy. now i completely understand that inexplicable love that mamas try to describe. i hope to write more about vayda, her birth and other mama things soon.

justin is doing well, too. threeforty has him all over the map – with featured venues in town and all the way to 30A in florida. we have had the craziest year. i think most couples would have had a difficult time enduring all of the life changes that we chose in such a short amount of time. it has certainly stretched our love and helped us grow. a year ago this saturday (july 11th), we got married at a private family ceremony at the beach. a week before that, we moved my studio apartment into our current home. a month before that (june 13th) we got engaged. then, vayda was born at the beginning of the year (january 24th). it has honestly been a huge blur that i am just now reflecting on. i haven’t even shared wedding photos!

in that vein, i want to cover some moments in my next few posts that i missed in all the chaos. today, it’s my engagement ring. i first saw the ring on etsy years ago and was drawn to it for several reasons. i’m a very sentimental person, so i enjoy finding the meaning in things other than the obvious. for me, this ring says a lot about who i am.

EWAEngagementRingit is handmade, and it isn’t your average diamond. don’t get me wrong. i love a diamond – there are beautiful diamonds in my ring’s setting. but i have always enjoyed things a little off the beaten path, so i wanted a different feature stone. the two sapphires accenting the center stone were the first thing i noticed. justin and i were both born in september (sapphire birthstone), and my parents were also born in september, too. as the greatest example of enduring love in my life – i thought nothing could symbolize the love justin and i were entering into more than those sapphires. it represents the love i came from (my parents), who we are (september babies) and the love i hope we share for a lifetime.

the aquamarine was a stone of happenstance that has more meaning now than it did when i first saw it. aquamarines have obvious ties to water. when i moved out of my parents’ house into my own place, i lived on the lake. the first time i ever talked to justin on the phone, i was sitting on my back deck with my mama looking at the water. fast forward through all the conversations and memories with justin and i dating looking out at the very same water – fishing on the communal dock, justin proposes to me at a covered bridge on the river where his dad proposed to nancy many years ago. i’ll never forget thinking we were taking a walk to check on a fallen tree limb and turning to see justin on one knee with the ring i adored in his hand.

less than a month later, we were married on the beautiful beach of st. andrews park. and in january, our little aquarius was born – making my ring that much more of a treasure.


the andrews update

don’t know why i deleted this. so sweet……

i might as well give up on blogging. not really. i’ll post when i can, but life has been happening, y’all.

first things first, justin and i got married. we shotgunned it down at st. andrews at the beach with a few of our family members. i wondered if i would look back and regret not having some large extravaganza, but i am 100% happy with my decision. that small wedding was enough stress on its own. i can’t even imagine a multi-thousand dollar affair. i’m happy to continue planning those kind of large events for folks, but i’m glad i stuck to my guns and kept it intimate.

we also moved. i lived at marsh landing for three years, and it was such a cool little place. we live in house now with a pool, and it’s finally coming together after a few months!

we’re also having a baby. a little girl, vayda pharris. we just love the name vayda, and pharris is my great grandmother’s maiden name. her birthday was january 8th, so i’m hoping vayda will be here around that time (we’re due january 20th). only a few more months to go. pregnancy has been interesting. i’ve been sick literally every day since about week five. i was sick all day during my first trimester, but i’ve kept up the morning ‘routine’ everyday when i wake up. after over 150 consecutive days of throwing up, i’m feeling like a true champion.

justin has been really busy with some upcoming festivals and concerts he’s planning. i can’t wait until it gets time for the holidays and we can both slow down a little. it’ll actually be busy at my job during christmas with events, but i’ll be taking it easy since i’ll be eight months pregnant. 🙂 that’s just a little update for now!